I'm sad and empty and he has no idea how much he's hurt me...help?

he's got a gf, but we've been talking long before her. we've been plannng on hooking up for months and we finally got togethr. we told everyone we were going to the movies and we just drove around.he finally parked n in the backseat he fngered me n i gave him a hj. i, love him and he doesn't. he was relly nice and funny before. he would talk about everything. tell me hisfeelings and otherstuff. and then after, and he was driving me home he tells me things like" we just need tobe friends, we need to hang out more and sometime we can drive around again cz its fun talkin to u." and when i told him that i was nervous about everything cuz i thought he was only using me like a hooker, he said no...an his face and tone seemed like he was tlling the truh. this was my frst sexual experienc and he knnows...the first couple days after ws happy and cool with it.but now im sad and empty and i feel horible. hes gota gf, he poably used me and the fact that...i still liked it. i liked it and i on want it to stop and i dontwant him to leave, and i feel horrible because i shouldt have don it but i dontwat it to stop. what am i supposed to do? he has no idea of what i'm feeling...and i want to steer him in the direction of that convo...but he won't text back. wa do i do> please help me, i can't stand this...

sonia2011-04-20T15:53:06Z

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well, kinda the same thing had happend for me and my bf for 3 months. It was fun at first, but then he kinda didn't respect me, became wired, and didn't talk much. then i became too angry and sat down and told him that he can't use me just for his sexual desires. he tired to do it 2 more times, but i didn't let him and he became so mad and said "if you really love me, you will do this" n i saying if u really love me, u won't do this. anyways, we broke up for a week and then he realized that I'm too god ... serious and he has no right to treat me like that. so he came back but it was over for me although i liked him alot. for u, these kinda boys doesn't worth it, when it is like a "guilty pleasure" for u, then why u want to keep doing it? finally u'll get hurt more if u keep being with him as i did with a lot of regrets. even now that he has a gf, u trying to force him to be with u will make him think that u liked what he've done to u and this time, the sex will happen n god knows what else after that! just sayin. be careful and get over him like i did before it's too late. stop texting him and vanish all the things that remind u of him. start a new life although it's really hard and even i haven't got over him yet. but it worths it, believe me. just believe in urself and get a life! there r tons of good guys out there for u, it just needs time that the right one come ur way. :)