Should i tell my husband? I'm stressing?

I felt I had had enough and told my husband to leave. I then started texting his friend. He recently moved 8 hours away from us so I booked a train to go and see him.
When i was there we spent an amazing few days together. It felt so comfortable and it was lovely. We said we both liked each other but because he now lived so far away we couldn't really be. Plus I didn't want him to loose friends cause we were together.
I can for get him as i think he is the one....he's on my mind 24 7. I fell he could of been the one.
I decided to give it another go with my husband and feel really guilty...Should i say something?
I'm scared the friend comes back to see us and it slips out on a night out or something.

Please help x

2011-05-12T14:39:51Z

The man doesn't want me to say anything as he doesn't want to loose his friends either

Anonymous2011-05-12T14:42:22Z

well I would say. yeah tell your husband what you really feel and stay firm with your decision because of the stress that you are having it's not worth being stress about. Apparently you don't love your husband any more because of the fact that you told him to leave. That was your answer right there. Let him stay gone. And you move on with the other guy if it's meant to be. If not at least you will be free and stress free all at the same time. (laughing)

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self and i2011-05-12T14:40:54Z

if you want to really reconcile then you have to come clean about everything. sooner or later it will come out, might as well be now so if things work out, it'll be a fresh start with no secrets.
what if you don't tell and all goes good then one day he comes to know of it.. it'll be twice as ugly to deal with..

Edit: then he should've never slept with his friend's woman huh?! Too late now

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Mimi2011-05-12T14:36:54Z

The truth always comes to light, at the most inconvenient moments.
I would tell him. Because if he finds out on his own, it's going to be BAD.

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?2011-05-12T14:49:19Z

That is pretty sceevy to be dating your husband's friend. Either way if I found out it wouldn't matter I would get ride of you and my friend. That is pretty crappy.

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Honeysuckle2011-05-12T14:56:16Z

Tell the truth because if you do not he will eventually find out.

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