My boyfriend has had two failed marriages. Should he really give up on marriage?

I am not at all like his X wives. I am a woman who could have a great long term marriage.
I realize that I can love him without marriage and willing to do so. It seems like marriage is fizzling out . Expensive weddings are in and I often wonder how many last. ugh

SHAIYLYNN2011-07-12T13:53:50Z

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no there is no reason he should give up on the idea of marriage. I have had 3 failed marriages
not two. & so My 4th marriage Is still going strong.. we have been married only 7 & a half years, but already we have that sense of forever.. my husband was the same way, he had 2 failed marriages before me, but has never less tried again, this time with me & tells me everyday that he thanks God i came to him when i did. or it would have never happened again. I do agree as to finding out why his marriages failed.. with us, our spouses cheated on us, so of course they failed. but that does not mean that with the right person, those same actions will occur.

Mr Warrior2011-07-12T00:38:10Z

This depends on , what failed his last two marriages.
And whether he contributed to that failure.

His past actions, dictate character.

Suffice to say , people live and learn. And i effect, if there has been two marriages. Unlikely they might marry again.
But does not mean they can not have a life companion , which is one in the same. Minus all the paperwork, so to speak.

?2011-07-12T05:52:15Z

a lot of them do last it just depends if the two get along with eachother respect eachother and care for one another.He should not give up on marriage 3 times a charm.

T. R.2011-07-15T22:29:33Z

Maybe some counseling will help both of you. I wish both of you the best.

Anonymous2011-07-12T00:37:59Z

You should know why he failed?
What is the guarantee that he will behave properly with you?

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