Having trouble with Friends?

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I'm having extremely difficult time with my friends or so called friend.

Some of the so called friends I have don't want to talk to me and only want to talk to me when they feel like it and don't want to tell me what wrongs, other I have a feeling to try and distance themselves from me and the remainder only want to do stuff if they feel like doing it or if it only when it suit them.

I find it hard to start talking to allot of friends and other then going out to the pub and drinking on a saturday night I find it also extremely hard to do anything with them such as going to the movies, going for a drive somewhere, camping, etc and I'm feeling really alone that its making me feel upset and sick inside.

I'm 20 years old and I'm over people saying to me people change, they get jobs, have family and don't have time to do stuff like this anymore. Which I believe is rubbish since I seen people who are older then me still able to do various activities like I mention above.

Erin · Accepted Answer

Ohh I really hate that kind of a feeling.
It feels like they'd only use you.. Which sucks.
I think the best way to handle this, is to confront them.
Tell them how YOU feel. Tell them that when they need you, you might also need them.
They should know that a friend is a person who'll be there whenever you need them. Or who will look out for you. Its great to hear that you're doing your part as a friend. And now, it should be their turn to listen to you. If they still dont listen to you, then you might have to find another friend..
Goodluck..

Anonymous · Answer

your 20! your free! its not like your in school and you have to deal with being with bitches everyday.leave me, get new friends. there obviously trying to avoid you so leave them.

Gabby · Answer

You should find new friends they are not true friends

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