Do more black men suffer from self hatred in comparison to black women...?

because society is most racist to them?

In other words..because as children white adults(mostly the teachers) seem to work harder at psychologically destroying the mentality of the black male at a very young age..so that when they become adults they are no longer productive..and feel that they are worthless and that being black is the worst..

Another reason why i hate racist whites teach young black children

Throughout history people target the males in order to attempt at destroying a race.."If you read the Willie Lynch letter" that is another example..the males are targeted because people know that men are the leaders and the ones that hold a people together..

BTW
I KNOW black women suffer self hatred too ..that is why i used "in comparison too" because i think it's more common to find a black male mistreat blacks(male and female) than to find a black female that does the same thing

2011-10-14T09:09:15Z

@ White rabbit

this question was meant for blacks only

Obviously you didn't read my question..there was no "blame" in this question..

2011-10-14T09:42:18Z

@ bRONZE W AND SPIRIT


you are completely wrong! There are WAY more black males with white females<<evidence of self hatred than black females with white males
I know black men who have also stated they rather be helped black black women than black men..because black men treat black men BAD.

I'm guess you both don't live on earth..in order to fix a problem you must first acknowledge it..obviously you both didn't read the question..so in your mind..black women experience more racism than black men? if you claim black women experience more self-hatred

Read details before you give ignorant answers

Anonymous2011-10-14T09:31:07Z

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I would say yes! I see more PROUD black women then men these days. in the civil rights era it was the other way around with Malcolm x and Martin Luther king. Now the black men heads are so far up the white mans azz they can't even see. All they worry about is keeping up with the whites. That is the main reason we need segregation back in the USA. We would have MORE black teachers to encourage these young black guys their is more in this world then they think. We will see more black lawyers,governor's,doctors, and etc. If we went back to segregation black Americans will value their race more and see how much we are Superior then white with education. Some US black men just have to apply it, they have it. SOME just don't apply it because they think they will not make it in life. Why? Because they listen to what the whites have stereotype black people. Its all white fault.Not Me I'm a PROUD black man and I WILL not let these whites do such to me.

Anonymous2013-11-19T14:43:19Z

Will yes they do suffer more because this system always use the women against their men. As far as being happy with themselves I dont agree. I think the reason black women say theyre black and proud is because they are trying their best to not feel left out so they speak those words to try and higher their self esteem. A lot tend to say this a lot but deep down their hurting. You know, people always look up to be because I teach them that black is beautiful and that Christ himself was black and all the prophets within the bible were black(Got proof) but I still have low self esteem due to 20 or so years of brainwashing.

?2011-10-14T09:25:59Z

The job of the teacher is to *educate or help with knowledge, not to support. Support is optional and something that teachers choose to do or choose not to do, either way if the outcome of that student is less than progressive or positive, that's not the teachers fault. They did what they were supposed to do.

You say there wasn't any blame in this question, but clearly you don't know the definition of the term.

Blame: Verb, Assign responsibility for a fault or wrong: "the inquiry blamed the engineer for the accident".
Noun:
Responsibility for a fault or wrong.
Synonyms:
verb. accuse - reprove - censure - charge - reproach
noun. fault - guilt - reproach - reproof - censure

Here you are blaming white adults (and teachers) for the misfortunes of these specific black men when this has nothing to do with them. This is more about sense of self and family environment than anything. You say these black men feel worthless but why don't you ask them why? Lol, I've asked one of my guy friends (who is black) why he dates only white girls and he told me, and what he had to say related to him meeting too many girls that were like you (thinking they understood something they had no idea about, blaming others, basically irresponsible and blind to their own flaws) they spent more time judging him than they would themselves or people like them.

Anonymous2011-10-14T09:29:51Z

Yes black men with white women is self hatred,But for when a woman goes with a different race,she adopts the MANS nationality as her own.
But this is different with black men becuase,the black man in america is looked at as no good,and worthless.

Its no mystery that black women use their bodies to persuade their boss to give them a raise,or promotion
But a black women has a better chance than getting a job rather than a black man.

The black man is being opressed by both sides,the white man...and the black women.

When the black man and black women goes to court...who is most likely to get judged in favor of???
who does the black women call if she wants a divorce?
who does the black women call if the black man decides to beat his child?

When the black women needs help from the government...she is not allowed to get a MAN.

Mark2011-10-14T09:13:13Z

Sometimes, but I think most black men DON'T suffer self-hatred from such behavior of others.

Edit: Actually, Dani is right, and not only that, but the question didn't even say "black people only answer this question" but I agree with you that White Rabbit's answer didn't contribute ANYTHING to the convo. (It was in the same manner of "unhelpful" as saying "I don't let black people cook for me" [who said anything about the cook???] to "what unusual ingredient to you put in your chili?" or whatever.)

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