Imagine being past your prime and stuck with someone who is destroying your life and wasting theirs. Imagine sticking it out for the betterment of your children because all the odds say your kids will grow up happier and more well adjusted if you can do that. Imagine losing sleep as you dream of the life you could have. Then tell me why I should care about you're little kid crush. No one cares, shut up plz.
Micki 48
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Well, for one thing they're kids, and they think their problems are important. You think your problem is important, but some people might tell you that you don't have to be stuck with someone who is destroying your life and wasting their own, and that you could do something about your situation, instead of lying in bed dreaming about a different life. These kids you're talking about are smart enough to know when something is wrong between mom and dad, and when one parent is miserably unhappy, so staying together for the sake of the kids doesn't automatically mean they're going to be happier or more well adjusted. A 13 year old needs a place to express their feelings just like you're doing. Telling them to shut up because you're miserable is pretty darn harsh.
Amy
I think you answered that one yourself. They don't think of what you just said as an example of a real relationship issue. They've never experienced what a real relationship
Is like so they define 'relationship issues' as whether or not the girl they like says hi to them at school everyday.
Mine?
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