Are amazing teenaged girls intimidating to teenage guys?

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I work with youth and I've met amazing kiddos both girls and guys.  I scratch my head that the most stellar girls (older teens --- cute, above average athletes, above average intelligence, musically talented, and above average KINDNESS) report being dateless.  I've seen some of these girls be a little vulnerable...not stupid throw their future away kind of vulnerable...just sad that they haven't been asked out vulnerable.  It leaves them feeling ugly when they really are not.

Girls of lesser looks and abilities are dating like crazy.

I know I've actually answered a gazillion of these kinds of questions (and answered well) and I do believe the boys to be mostly intimidated.  But here's another question...

Do boys mind being asked out?  

And if so...what is the best way that I could encourage these girls to approach it.

Should they ask directly?

I don't mean for someone to be their boyfriend...I mean to go on a date.  

Do guys mind being asked out on a first date??? If you are guys (16-19) What kind of group dates would you like to be asked on...or would you prefer one on one (wholesome ideas. please.) dates.


Ideas?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Thanks for reading my queation and answering it but I did NOT take the time to read yours. But I am going to say. Thanks for such a looooooong answer I took the time to read that. Ok 1st im going to se he is compleatly worth it they raised a perfect son who is still a vergin. 2nd he owns a dept store at a baseball stadium witch is only seasonal witch is why he cant hold a job. 3rd im not replacing n e parts espacialy ones I never had. They will permanetly b my in laws. 4th he got me a ring he perposed a 2000 dollor ring and im not braging. But I sed no. im not ready for a commitment and he is the one ill marry but im not willing to b engaged. Thank you SO much for the time you put in to answering. But you just compleatly didnt understand the consept.

Anonymous · Answer

I think some guys just assume that they can't get with a girl like that so they set their sights kinda low. If you want to ask a boy out then do so.

Anonymous · Answer

funny how when i asked the same you answered that you think the girl would come off as being too eager.... its assumptions like this that **** me up but then again, if the guy is mature enough he will never assume something like that. i asked the guy i like out btw. i honestly dont care if he thought im too care. i just wanted to get to know him.

Are amazing teenaged girls intimidating to teenage guys?

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