I like a close friend?

we've been friends for many years, i hate seeing her go with some random guy every few months only to be hurt and be dumped or break up with them after like 1-3 months time, its gotten really silly to watch. i've always liked her , and when i do attempt to go with her she always has excuses or refuses.

One time she endded up dating one of my newly met friends, i can't say he was really a friend but i knew him from a few christian events and she dated him online, and he told me she was not attracted to black guys ect along those lines, idk if it was true or not and sounded completely silly she denied that and i believe her since i've known her so long, im just asking what should i do. im confused as to what i want to do and i really like her :|

Paul2011-11-23T19:39:11Z

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keep her as a friend. if she were a good catch she would have the same person. or maybe she is going with men she knows are not a match because she wants you. this is something you want to consider. she is a friend and keep her as that, whether you date her or not. but be her friend and she will be yours.

Anonymous2011-11-24T03:36:26Z

kidnap her and take her out :) jk, do not kidnap her :) just butter her up :) give her lots of compliments ,carry her stuff, walk her to class, hang out with her more and talk seriously about future plans and life goals and dreams. once youve done that, shell be hanging on your every word :) good luck :)