We like each other, but not allowed to talk to him?

So, there's this guy. We'll call him A.
My friend gave me his number and we were texting for over and month and we started to develop feelings for each other. He's legitimately in love with me even though we haven't met. He'd send me poems and everything. I wanted to meet him because I liked him too.
Here's where the problem arose.
I saved a lot of the poems he sent but I also saved some other messages. We'd talk about anything, and I forgot to delete some messages that he was talking about sex casually. He was joking around, you know guys. He uh..also sent shirtless pictures of himself. Harmless enough. But my mom took my phone and went through it without me knowing and she flipped out. My phone's still confiscated and I'm not allowed to talk to him ever. My parents were afraid I would do things with him or send him naughty things, which I haven't nor would I ever. But I'm not supposed to talk to him. This broke his heart and it upset me too.
But I've been secretly talking to him on Facebook. He's depressed and everything and he's told me he's missed me so much. But I don't want to disobey my parents, and hurt him. I wish he could find a girl at his school and move on from me, but if I tell him that he'll get more depressed.
I still like him a little, but not as much as he likes me because I know we'll never be able to meet now.
Urgh, any help would be great. D:
Oh, just to say I understand my parents' logic and everything.

2011-11-24T09:08:26Z

Unfortunately, I know for a fact that they'll never let me see him ever. I would be fine with him getting a girlfriend and moving on but I know it's not that simple. :C

2011-11-24T09:10:55Z

Oh, just to add, I'm not allowed to see him ever. It's not that my parents are against me dating, they're just against him.

Paul2011-11-24T09:05:04Z

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Your parents love you unconditionally and will do what they "know" is best for you. Do what you are told. You will not regret it in the future. What kind of guy needs a long distance relationship? Be a friend but not a "girlfriend."

Anonymous2011-11-24T17:04:58Z

Tell them you would never send him naughty pictures and tell them that they can view your messages at the end of the day to make sure you haven't been doing anything your not suppose to

?2011-11-24T17:06:11Z

If you already have feelings for him, why give up? just maintain this close friendship thing until your parents are at a stage that your parents are cool with you having a boyfriend. At least there is still hope.

Sarah xx2011-11-24T17:04:12Z

hmm well u do need to try and get over him...as does he need to get over you...