Aged 46 and recently diagnosed with high functioning autism - should I tell people ?
Hi, I've always been unusual and found difficulty in making friends. I do have some good ones though and am generally happy with my life. I have to interact with people though (school events and such) but I find it very difficult and it makes me anxious. I have two kids on the autistic spectrum (aspergers) but only recently discovered that I also have Aspergers (I read the book Aspergirls by Rudy Simone) and I have spent the last week weeping silent tears of relief at finally understanding why I am the way I am. Should I tell people that I have this syndrome ? I am not sure if it will help or not. I'd appreciate any thoughts on this, from autistic people and neurotypical people. Thanks for reading. K
2011-12-21T05:20:01Z
I am not interested in whether people think I am aspergers or not. I would like peoples opinions on whether it is important to tell other people.
C~2011-12-21T17:00:02Z
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It's up to you. Tell people if you feel comfortable. I tell my friends about my Asperger's. I feel like they can understand me better if they know about my Asperger's and how it affects me. It's helpful for the most part, but I've had a couple people who start treating me differently or see me as just a list of symptoms. I prefer to only tell people that I'm close to; acquaintances don't really need to know I have Asperger's.
If you decide to tell someone, here are a few things I recommend: tell them what Asperger's is, because many people don't know much about it. It's important to say how Asperger's affects you in particular, since we don't all have the same symptoms, and give some specific examples. Emphasize that you are the same person as before, the diagnosis hasn't changed that.
You don't need to decide right now if you're going to tell people. You can give yourself some time to adjust to the diagnosis, then tell others.
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You must understand you can no just diagnose yourself with something from reading a book, infact by the sounds of it you may have nothing more than an anxiety disorder, not anything like this. Please make sure you see a psychiatrist because making assumptions.
I would give it some time before telling anyone. There is no rush to divulge any personal information. i would think about your reasons why you want to tell friends this. And it is really up to you--a trusted friend will be your friend nomatter what!