Basically this is how it is, she duznt trust guys nemore because shes been hurt and used countless times, She even tried killing herself FOUR ******* TIMES, I can only thank god she's alive, and the doctors of course they get some credit to haha. She's pretty much told me she likes me, but she said even if u were ne1 else I wouldnt date you. I know she likes me, she sed she loves my personality and how much I like her, And that she WANTS me to like her. But shes NOT dating? Wtf duz this mean??? And how can I change her mind cuhz i wanna ask her out on valentines day
2012-01-28T08:06:45Z
I'm turning 16 in april, She's 15 i think. I dont want bullshit answers like "you're too young" This is very important to me.
♥ þe†i†e eleþhan†♥2012-01-28T08:11:08Z
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Just take it slow, like you said she's been hurt a lot and now it's hard for her to trust guys. The key is to get her to trust you. Just be nice and sweet to her and show her you care, basically prove that you are totally different from the guys she dated in the past. About the Valentines Day, just ask her is she doing anything for it and if she says no ask her to go out, if she says no say you understand.
AWWWWW this is so cute. Well U just need ot prove it to her. When you ask her out this is what needs to be said. " I kow your not dating and ur not in the trust zone with guys. I understand. I just want you to know I wouldnt be like that. U said u liked me and i like you to. Just plz consider this for a little bit before answering. But will you go out with me ( or what ever your saying for that part. )" and then do what ever you feel like you got to do next. I understan what she's been throuhg. Same thing has happened to me. A girl has alot of problems with trusting a guy after that. U cant blame her. All she wishes for is someone who's not going to do it anymore who she can trust. And i dont mean to scare u but if the rezults are bad then just work your way up into the trust area with her. Prove to her that your the guy. In fact start now to help your case when you ask her. Hope this helps a bunch :D <3 good luck.
If I were you I would just stay as her friend. Just be there for her. Show that you really care about her. With time she may want to be in a relationship with you. If not just stay by her side, help her when she needs it. That's what you do when you are in love. Whether you are going out with her or not doesn't matter. If you really like her, you will just want to be with her. A friendship is enough for that. The only problem she has is that she has a broken heart. Show her your love and you can fix that.
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I know how it feels, same thing happened to me. Just keep liking her and do everything the same. Ask her why she won't date you. I know it sounds weird but I have done it before :].