Last year I invited a girl over and we made out on the couch and then I took her to my bed. We made out and I took off her shirt and I Put her hand on my penis. She began giving me a handjob and that was that. A little afterwards we went to the couch and watched tv and I put her hand on it again and we continued.. Then recently this year I invited her over and the same thing happened.. My question is what does this mean? Does she like me? Should I get with her? Im confused on the whole subject.. Is getting a handjob bad? im 16 and thats all ive ever had.
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She could like you, or she could just want to do sexual activity. It really depends on the type of girl she is. She may like you and is trying to please you, thinking it will get you to like her back. Or she may just want to be experimenting with guys. I think the best and easiest way you can get a direct answer is to just ask her. Ask her how she feels about you and let her know how you feel about her. That will help get rid of a lot of confusion between the both of you.
To answer if you should get with her, it depends on what you want. Do you like this girl? Do you potentially want a relationship with her? If so, hold off on doing sexual things with her for awhile. Get to know her as a person and wait until you're both comfortable and ready to participate in sexual activities. If you just want to do sexual things with her rather than have a relationship with her, make sure you CLEARLY let her know that, and make sure she is okay with that before you go further. Otherwise she will probably end up feeling lead on if she has feelings for you.
And no, getting a handjob isn't bad. I think anything under than 16 is kind of too young to start experimenting sexually. Just be safe about sex and only do things when you and your partner both feel comfortable and you should be fine.
Hope that helps.
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I think you should talk to her. It cant just be her always horny or something. She might like you. I still think that she would have said something by now. From what ive read, it sounds like you hardly talked those two times. Did you have a lively conversation? Were you flirting with her? If you were, i think that you have a chance together. If youre not sure, talk to her about it. You are letting her give you a handjob so you need to make sure she has feelings for you.
It means that shes easy, a slut and has no self esteem. If she wanted to give you a hand job, she would inititate it, however, since you, so desperately, have to put her hand there, she obviously lacks the self worth not to...so it means you both are pretty skanky. No offense, but who asks this? losers, thats who! Have a great Sunday!