Fat, desperate, and frankly weird boy won't take a hint?

He mistook my friendliness for flirting, and when he asked me out, I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt in an effort to not be shallow. But honestly, I am not physically attracted, he's almost a decade older than me, he has no sense of personal boundaries, he frequently laughs at me condescendingly, his idea of a date is paintball, and his only interests seem to be anime, cars, and...paintball. He talks about himself a lot but will not listen to me talk about my interests.

Also, he has made lewd suggestions implying that he really just wants in my pants. And quite honestly, he'd squish me. I don't want to be mean, but 'I wish I'd never given him my number. I've tried ignoring him, but he continues to try to text and call me, and we're in two of the same courses and often run into each other on campus, and I just don't feel right outright ignoring him in person when he talks to me.

How can I get him to leave me alone???

CrustyCurmudgeon2012-04-05T23:02:31Z

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Tell him you live in two different worlds, and he should stay in his. Make it short and to the point, ending with please don't call me again. I tried to be your friend and you took advantage of me so get lost, or other gentle words to that effect.

Anonymous2012-04-06T05:50:35Z

Girl, tell him straight up, you don't want to talk to him anymore, and you don't want to b near him. Don't worry. You can try to block his number, or just avoid him in real life by walking the other way as soon as you see him, etc. Just try to block him.