How to get girls to chase?

I always meet lots of cute girls and I can always initially reel them in, but I always end up just being a nice guy, and can't get them to chase me. In what ways can I become more mysterious I guess, and keep girls interested...

?2012-05-01T01:42:17Z

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You have to be able to spark her curiosity about YOU. You have to become that mysterious guy that she just cannot figure out. This makes women go CRAZY. They think about you, they want to know more, it's almost as if they are compelled to chase after you.

Yet, most men never will make a woman chase after them. They come as too needy, they try too hard to win her over, they even go as far as making a fool of themselves with the women that they desire. You don't have to feel bad if you have done these things before. I think we all have at one point in time.

You have to also project the image of being an in-demand kind of guy. That means you cannot be available to her every call, or every single time she wants to see you. You have to be more mysterious and have your own exciting life that she has to become a part of.

Remember women chase after something they want and/or can't have... so basicly stay just out of reach. When you say you'll call, DON'T. When she asks you to call, Don't. basicly ignore her.

Chris2012-05-01T08:41:30Z

One of the most important things when you're meeting girls is to talk about them. When they ask about you, don't give them too much information, keep it brief but interesting. Find out about them and act really interested, compliment them in small ways so that they feel good about being around you. Keep the focus on them. Later you can find an excuse to leave for a while, such as taking a call (or pretending to) and saying you'll catch up later. If they're interested at this point, chances are they'll find you again.

trader18672012-05-01T08:33:16Z

seriously if they are not interested then there is nothing more you can do ---- i suggest going for younger ladies ---- 3 to 5 years is ideal --- as long as they are over the age of consent where you live ---- without being nasty they will be about the same maturity level so you should get on better ---- dating your age (if you are) is weird

?2012-05-01T08:33:48Z

Brag about yourself, but not too much. Simply just be yourself