How long will it take for me to get over my ex. i loved her and think about her all the time, during the relatioship i paid for everything for her made her feel special and then out of the blue she gave me this "not feeling it anymore" excuse and just walked away from the relationship. I see her at schiool and she ignores me completely; ive talked with some of my friends about her and shes told me to not bring her name up. i came to the conclusion this girl just turned out being a big ***** yet cant seem to forget about her! pls hhelppp
mrpetaz2012-05-15T20:07:32Z
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I'm so sorry. I just went through a terrible break up as well. Firstly, try and avoid as much contact with her as possible. It seems hard because you're so used tob eing around them, but truly it helps SO MUCH. Then, immerse yourself in whatever it is you love to do, whether it be music, art, poetry, movies, anything... just catch up on something you haven't been able to do because oyu've been with her. Then, realize that the relationship/break up was a Learning Experience. You will have so many more experiences to have an amazing relationship, and it will only get better!! The only thing I do not suggest is hooking up with someone you don't care about to get her attention... not only will it just straight up piss her off, but you will regret it so much. Hope this helps.
Hi, are you in high school? If yes, then I suggest you enjoy your youth, focus on your studies, go to prom, graduate, attend college and chalk this relationship up as a loss. I you think this breakup is hard then, "keep living and you will experience many more heartaches in your life." I remember my first "true" love I was 16 and thought the sun rose and set on this guy. After 6 years of dating and one child later we brokeup. I felt like someone was squeezing my chest and I just knew that I would never get over him. lol How funny! That was almost 17 years ago. We share the responsibility of raising our son so I see him often. Eww! Now I can't believe I ever chose him as a boyfriend! What was Ithinking. Keep your head up
Each person is different. You will take your own time for your heart to heal. Abd anger/pay back is not the answer. So don't go get some "hot" girl just to make her jealous.
i know how you feel there, but you'll find someone better and they'll make you feel happy again :) but just chill with friends a lot and try and ignore her, its hard but i's gotta be done.may be days, weeks and months, before you actually get over her. but you'll feel good abotu yourself when you do :)