Hmm... I'm 13 he's 16. He calls me sexy most of the time, he says I'm hot a lot. He says beautiful some of the time. Is that bad? Like is it bad that all he may want me for is sex? And don't say anything about the age difference. It's my decision to date him!! So don't even think you can tell me not to date him. I just asked whats your opinion on an older guy calling me sexy.
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First of all you are only 13. When you get older you will realize how a woman should be treated. If a guy really loves a girl he won't keep saying sexy sexy. Where's- I adore you? Wheres- you are so beautiful? Your perfect.. And basically romantic. Of course I don't expect this from a 16 yr old because they discovered sexy... They want sex. And calling a girl sexy they want the girl to feel sexy to like the guy for calling them that. But what gets me is why would he want to date and call a 13 yr old sexy?? You were 10 just 3 yrs ago. He is in high school and should know better. All I'm saying Is its your choice to date him but don't let him take the innocence away from you. You have many more years ahead of you to be sexy. Stay "cute" and don't give in to lust. Wait til you are older for sex when you understand it more and with someone closer to your age so you both experience it new together.
Anonymous
16 year old boy calling a 13 year old girl sexy and hot: I want to **** you
beautiful: Pretty and the best compliment ever
If you plan to date him I would be careful since most 16 year olds use 13 year olds for sex.. I wouldn't even bother dating him if I were you
Ranchmom1
Typically, 16 year olds date 13 year olds because they do not feel confident enough to ask other 16 year olds to have sex with them, so they figure 13 year olds will be flattered enough by an older guy's attention to be willing to have sex with them.
So yes, if you continue to date him, he will ask you to have sex with him.
Wishing you well.
Isabelle
I've seen too many times that guys of that age don't actually want a relationship. They go after younger girls for VERY wrong reasons. He's feeding you what you want to hear. He's sixteen. He can drive. Make money. He goes to high school, and do you really think he wants to tell his friends he's dating his little sister? No. Don't listen to him, because it's just pretty words. If you're really going to date him, make sure your parents are aware of it. If they're okay with it, then go on ahead. DON'T date him behind their backs, because the outcome won't be pretty./:
Anonymous
creeeeeeeeeepy!
not really that much because of the age difference because it's not THAT big, it's more because of most 16 year olds attitudes to 13 year olds are: stupid, pathetic, losers. so for one to act like that is weird.