I love my guy but I am not in love with him. He is kind, sweet, lovable, generous, trustworthy, loyal, makes me laugh, and I know there is no one more suited for me than he is. However, while I care deeply for him, I don't feel any real chemistry. Is that so important?
2012-07-12T13:32:07Z
We've been together for 3 years. He's always telling me how much he loves me. And, in my own way, I love him. The sex is ok. Lately, though, I've begun to feel like I am not attracted to him physically. We have a lot in common and enjoy each other's company but, quite honestly, something is missing for me. I don't want to settle for the hamburgers out there because this guy is steak compared to them. And, I believe that substance and character are more important than style. This guy has it all. What do you think?
?2012-07-12T13:13:55Z
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It's hard to say, its a 50/50 thing. it depends on the relationship and how he feels about you. If you try something new in the relationship i bet you'll be inlove with him, like working out together, picnics at sunset, going for a walk at the park or anything that relates. hope i helped:)
Chemistry is all was important. And in finding a mate for yourself it is really important that you and your mate are compatible. If you feel he is more like a good friend with extra on the side ( aka sex) then it is not worth staying in the relationship, you are simply leading him on into thinking you love him giving him a false hope when he could have a lot of feelings for you. I would suggest talking with him and maybe taking a break from your relationship with him to see if you feel that tug and pull effect from missing him ( its a feeling like no other that he is the one and that u do love him) But if you do not miss him and life can go on without him then he is not the one for you, I know it can suck big time for him as well as you but it just means that he is not the one for you.
I hope you can make a good decision with the help from on here in finding your feeling for him or not for him. Gl Christina
I think it is, he will probably end up being like a best friend. Relationships that feel like it's brother and sister don't really last. Of course it depends how long you've been together. Is it the seven year itch thing? Maybe there's no chemistry because he's not enough bad boy or something like that. Or sex is boring, not creative, nothing new, same old, same old? There can be many causes. You haven't told us enough.