Should I fear that the stuff happening now is a predictor of the future? He keeps saying he will change. It isn't happening. I don't want to lose out on the good parts of the relationship. but then I don't want to be verbally abused in the future. Do people really change????
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I'm in the same situation. The good times are good but he has no respect to verbally abuse me. He says he'll change but as soon as he gets mad he yells and calls names. From what I've read they don't change.
Jonathan
Only God, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit can guide someone to changing there mind.
He will not change, he attacks women, regardless if its physical. it hurts either way.
Stay away from the creep he is inadequate and you're adoring a abuser. rather than a adorer.
Just because he looks like a carebear doesn't mean he is.
Evil lies. A Lot.
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He may say what you want to hear at the moment and even believe it himself, but it is very difficult for a person to just change the way they are without some kind of help. Maybe he can go see a therapist, or both can go together.
Naughty Cat
people change, if they met God, if something very bad happen in their lives.
u cannot change him, forget about it. u can either accept him for who he is, or
just kick him out of ur life. pray to Jesus God, He will helps you and bless u.