girlfriend wants to study with an ex?

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Well like we have been going out 3 months. things are great. we share everything with eachother and i love it she loves me also i know that for fact. 

recently she and i were talking and she brings up that she wants to study a lesson on tempo or something with her ex that she broke up with . She says he was the best at it and all. she asks me "are you ok with this"  . I kinda felt like it was a trap question, but i told her that I don't approve of it due to his behavior with her in the past. I trust he completely but i don't trust him. when they were broken up several times he tried kissing on her, sometimes successfully.... idk how she let that happen but you know females.  He knows her weaknesses and things like that. and honestly im just not comfortable with it. she wants to do this Tuesday, i was half busy so i told her that i would talk to her again about it.  

I just don't want her to call and be like... he kissed me or tried putting his hands on her or something. it would honestly crush me and i would be confused as to if it was the truth or not. 

What baffles me is why does she even still want to be in his presence like that and talk to him after what he tried when they were broken up a few months ago. 
She told me recently that she tried to give him a friendly hug and that he would not let her and said that it was over. this is what she told me about 2 days before she mention the studying thing.  Is this stuff just calculated trickery or am i just overreacting.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Ask her to be honest with you and be sincere yourself.  It's up to her to be truthful.  Yeah, it is a little bit sketchy for her to go over there but it takes two to tango.  He may have different intentions than she does with the situation but she may have to see for herself what kind of person he is if he does try to do something with her knowing that you two are in a relationship.  If she does have good intentions and the guy tries a move, you have to hope that she will be honest with you.  And if not, she will have to live with a guilty conscience and holding a lie in and eventually a fibber slips up and gets caught with the story not straight.  Just try to trust in her and read the vibes and kind of feel it out when you talk to her about it and I think you'll know in your heart if something is fishy or not.

Bridget mary · Answer

I want you to step back and breath. It's ok to feel protective of her but you gott give her trust. If you have to question her will power you need to take it up with her or even see if she has another friend that's good at tempo. But it's ok for you to be worried jus let her know and she should understand.  But in the men time think about what you would say or do first. The last thing you wanna do is like act like the jealous bf

Eskimo · Answer

If he's a recent ex then yes it would be very uncomfortable. Maybe you should join the study session? Sometimes people still talk to others who hurt them because they either don't respect themselves enough to let go of the ones who brought them down or they want to keep in contact with the ones who were once close to them.

? · Answer

Dude that's a BIG REDFLAG!!!!!!! Drop her or you will end up with a lot of drama in the near future. She shouldn't be letting him kiss her successfully at all. Don't be blinded by love. It's obvious she still has feelings for him.

olortegui · Answer

dude she of course likes u nevertheless...the way i see it the reason she broke up with u substitute into cuz she theory ur acquaintances have been speaking undesirable bout her n u knew yet did no longer say something n now she knows she made a mistake by way of listening to rumors n breaking apart with u...i think of she is making an attempt to b tight with u back so she would have the capacity to circulate out with u back...idk if u nevertheless like her or no longer yet i think of/understand she's flirting lol u take it to the step dude! ;)

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