Why is it so hard to trust after being cheated on?
I been cheated on and manipulated by my first bf my freshman and sophomore year. I thought I was in love. Ever since then hints got worse. Jealousy to the extreme with everyone after him. For no reason..now I'm a freshman in college with a serious bf. He's amazing and has done nothing to make me not trust him. Its been a year. But why am I still so jealous and get these horrid thoughts? Why haven't they gone away and when will they leave? He doesn't deserve to deal with my insecurities as bad as they are. A heart he didn't break..please help.
And he tells me I mean too much to him to let a dumb girl get in between us and says it's not a mistake to cheat, its a decision. He says he hopes it means a lot to me, and it does. But it's scary to hear that when I've heard it from the cheater before. I try forcing myself to trust him, cause he deserves it.
And he tells me I mean too much to him to let a dumb girl get in between us and says it's not a mistake to cheat, its a decision. He says he hopes it means a lot to me, and it does. But it's scary to hear that when I've heard it from the cheater before. I try forcing myself to trust him, cause he deserves it.