How to tell a friend your unhappy with them?

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Ok I've had this friend who a female and another mate who a male. I've known them for a considerably long time. Last year, these 2 friends met each other at my 21st and are now boyfriend/girlfriend. However, since they been together, I have not been happy since they are always talking behind my back, making me feel uncomfortable because I am different (I have a little bit of a lisp). Moreover, they are making me feel bad because I don't have a job, I drive a brand of car that they don't like, my family is from a non Australian background, I don't dress the same as them and I don't have a girlfriend. I don't want them to break up because of me, but how do I tell them to that I'm unhappy with them and ask them to stop?

cairdewithlove · Accepted Answer

You need to be strong and stand up for yourself, just tell them it’s your life and you will live it how you want to. If they still continue, just completely stop talking to them. Im not talking about ignoring them, but just disconnect them from your life, cause to me it sounds like they are pretty s***ty friends anyway. My advice if just be honest, tell them they are being a**holes and if they still wanna be friends with you, they should act like it. Best of luck :)

Xavier · Answer

Honestly dude its time for new friends. If they can't accept you for who you are then they are notworth the pain. I would suggest talking to them face to face. Try not to lose your cool and just be honest. They won't know something is wrong if you don't tell them.

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