I just dont get it, the only way i can meet girls is either on the internet (which is a terrible idea) and thru friends. Im naturally a shy person ad Iv'e been trying to be more outgoing, but, I don't get how some guys can see a girl and start a conversation without being nervous and without seeming weird or anything like that.
The Book Thief
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i used to be like you. what really got the shyness out of myself, i said F*** it and started talking to the girls. i found common ground with them. dont get me wrong, i still shy as h3ll but one of my good friend, who is a girl, we talk and flirt for the last hour of the day. she encourages me to ask out girls but i been getting a feeling that she likes me herself. The first thing that will start the cinversation is the words hey, hi and hello. try it sometime, its a really good conversation starter.
Pestilencia!
Ahh, you don't have to worry about it. :)
The best cure for your fears is to face them. Next time you feel nervous to introduce yourself just say: "I'm gonna do this!" and actually do so. There's nothing to fear. Oftentimes the girls are shy, too. ;)