What are they gonna think if they feel my bra strap when they hug me?
I'm a girl, and I've been friends with the same three guys since first grade. Well, we're in eighth grade now and I havn't hugged any of them since sixth grade, since I started wearing a bra. They tease me jokingly, saying I won't hug them cause I have a mystery boyfriend or that I believe in cooties. Truth is, I'me just worried what they will think when I hug them and they feel my bra strap. They crack jokes about my period, and I make fun of them when they get razor cuts, we dont mean anything by it. But will it be awkward when I hug them and they feel my bra strap? One of my guy friends is my crush so, I'd kinda like to hug them. But will it be wierd?
Damian2013-01-28T11:12:53Z
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Sounds to me as though you're all very relaxed in each others company and can talk and joke about normal everyday things so maybe they might make fun of you or comment first time but don't let it stop you from hugging them, they clearly mean no harm when they joke with you
You are the one who is making it awkward. Just hug them and so what if they feel the strap. I am sure almost every girl above a certain age wears a bra. Quit over thinking it.
Ok, they will understand that youre wearing a bra! lol every girl is starting to (or is already) wearing bras at your age and theres nothing to be ashamed or embaressed of, chances are they wont say anything! They've probably already noticed just never said anything. Plus guys are attracted to boobies, they wont mind feeling your strap. Youre overthinking this! (like us women do with most things) dont worry about it :)
All girls have to wear them. It shouldn't really matter if they feel your bra strap or not. I was actually worried about this same thing when I met my favorite band a couple months ago. I had them all sign the back of my T-shirt while I was wearing it and one of the boys (Ross Lynch) actually signed right over where my bra strap was. It actually didn't bother me and he didn't seem to be bothered either.
my friend(guy) was feeling my shoulder and started playing with my bra strap...it was awesome since i like him but anyway besides the point its not uncommon to wear a bra dear so they'll prob tease you since they are so immature but its not a mystery that girls wear bras soooo just hug the dang guys! lol