Why is it when someone has more than one unsuccessful marriage...?

They still chalk it up to not being able to find the right person? What about BEING the right person?

I've been divorced twice and I have no problem admitting that I was a major factor in the failure(s)...at some point I had to accept that fact...

flischer2013-02-04T18:28:29Z

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There is an old Scottish saying, "What a great gift the gods would give us, to see ourselves as others see us." This is not an inborn talent. We learn through suffering.

Captain S2013-02-04T18:21:07Z

Me, too. Same dynamic. Kind of makes me a bit gun-shy, though. But, maybe I should be.