I'm a fairly quite guy and am wondering if I should consider that a good quality or a bad quality I am pretty shy especially around girls.. Do girls find this unattractive? Or do girls like guys who are quite.
Adam F
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Shyer guys have problems because first they really apporach women and even take a risk by talking to them. You have to think about biological evulation here where women are just naturally programmed to be attracted to guys who take more risks and have more value as being a protector of them (and thier potential children).
That's not to say its unlikley that a woman could be attracted to a quiet guy happens all of the time. But the quiter guys tend to overvalue any attention by women by placing them on a pedastool if they do get approached and talked to, then they treat the contact as something they can't screw up so they tend not to take any action to move the realtionship in a sexual direction. And they tend to make the oneuos on the woman to make the moves which has a strong effect of killing any attraction that the woman may start to develop.
Also shyer guys tend to be overly avaiable to the women they happend to come across, they don't really stand thier ground and thus they fail the tests they throw at them. Also shyer guys lose attraction because they tend to be predicatable and predictability is boring as well.
But if you happen to run across a quiter submissive beta woman then you can stand a chance if any moves are made on the guys behalf and the guy is more assertive then the submissive woman.
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Well that depends on the girl really.
If by girl you mean the superficial, but quite hot, girls, then this is a bad quality.
But if you just mean the average girl, then you can't be sure.
There really is no way of telling if it's a good quality to have. It's either bad or no info.