how to get out of going to your friends house without her getting mad?

we made plans to go to her house today bu the thing is that i dont really want to go but if i tell her that she would get mad shes extremly jealous example: one time i went to a sleep over at one of my friends house and when she found out about it she started yelling at me and started saying you always go to everyones houses but mine. i mean really who does that and if i dont go shes goning to be really mad at me and i cant go because i havent even aske my mom yet! what should i do i need help?

It's Me_ The_ Scorpio2013-06-21T10:19:42Z

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I had a jealous friend once and i ended the friendship. You need to express how you feel and tell her your aloud to have other friends outside of her. if she gets mad tell her " i dint have time for this" and walk away dont be afraid of losing her as a friend you have more. and you have to stop being afraid of her. because if you weren't you wouldn't be worried about making her mad. Sit down and talk to her and express yourself. and if you dont do it today you'll get tired and eventually do it. good luck

SharkAttack2013-06-21T17:16:55Z

You made the plans. I hate it when my friends backout of the last minute. Just tell her you had an emergency doctor's appointment because you or a loved one was sick. If got mad because of that then.... Eh... Then she's only thinking of herself and not the feelings and possibilities of others.

?2013-06-21T17:13:19Z

1) Don't commit to things you don't want to do.
2) NEVER cancel on someone to do something with someone else.
3) Tell her your mom said you couldn't go. Make sure mom backs up your story.