why do people treat me without respect?
college student now and people still treat me the same as in high school
for example in a group discussion no one actually listens to me they may stare at me but they completely ignore what i'm saying and listen to someone else.
or if i'm hyper and trying to have fun i'm looked at as if i'm crazy and told to calm down. but if someone else does it, it's party time and people applaud or whatever
whenever i get mad at something and complain people tell me "dude shut up let that go" while if someone else complained about something they relate to it with them
or people are fake to me. i say hey but if they're around other people they ignore me but if they're alone they acknowledge me
or if i'm texting someone they ignore me and text others and act like they never received my text like today. this girl that acts nice around me just ignores me and all through text and she's on her phone all the damn time but does she text me no. i'm not jealous i just see it as a fake move.
or like today. now i understand i was in the wrong for what i did but i asked a girl if i could ask her a personal question. she said sure and the question was simply, are you a virgin. Instead of saying yes, no, or i prefer not to answer she gives me an attitude and says "What the hell kinda question is that? You're obviously a virgin if you're asking that." and from reading that i got pissed. i felt she couldve said "i prefer not to answer" and says i disrespected her. and goes off on me. in response i told her she needs to calm down and that it was a simple yes or no and that i wasn't aiming to disrespect her.
honestly i'm a nice guy but this nice card is really getting to me. its like no one respects me i'm always last anyone wants to listen to or hang out with. just today a girl even thinks i'm a virgin for whatever reason i told her i'm not but i doubt she believes me.
my level of tolerance is reaching the point where i simply stop being so nice and doing favors for people and for all the fake people i just ditch them or go off on them in response because for not talking to me just because i look like a nerd because my glasses or whatever cause the other dude is more better looking than me is just... pissing me off.
any advice anything i should do should i just not worry about it. what its just pissing me to stop being so nice to others.