GUY ISSUE SOMEONE PLEASE ANSWER! HELP?

I really like this guy, and heres our little story together:
About a year and a half ago he asked me out, but I didn't like him back then so I rejected him nicely, and he kept on liking me, and so then in december I told him that I liked him, and then a week later he got a girlfriend. (I swear on my life he only did it to make me jealous.) but then she broke up with him and left him for his cousin. Then in the hallways he'd always stare at me, or make eye contact with me and never break it until I did.

Then this Summer he got a girlfriend, and then a couple of weeks ago I saw him at my physical and I sat about 3 rows in front of him at the doctors office. (This is actually the second year in a row we've had physicals same day, same time.) Then a few days later he messages me on facebook and we talk for about an hour and in that hour we sorta just talked and talked. He always used smiley faces like this:) in every sentence basically. He asked me for my number. Then he texted me afterwards for a little bit but then randomly stopped responding.

Now I am here going crazy. I think about him everyday, when I listen to songs they always remind me of him, whenever I watch a movie I always think of him, I just can't stop thinking about him.
I feel as if he still wants me but he has a girlfriend. Please don't go saying hes a cheater, and that he'll do it to me to. He's not that type of person, and he necessarily isn't cheating. He hasn't touched me, or hugged me, or held hands with me or anything so don't say anything like that.

I don't know what to do, it's killing me.

Anonymous2013-09-13T21:29:01Z

You should take a step back....

How would you feel if you were in the other girls shoes? I bet she as his girlfriend can't stop thinking about him and truly cares about him. Do you think it would hurt you if you were that girl and knew that the guy had been flirting for hours with another girl?

Out of respect for women/girls every where I would take a step back and not be that girl. Don't be the homewrecker.

What you can do is distract yourself... try to stop thinking about him. Realize that now is not the right time for the two of you and maybe if/when that relationship ends you might have a possibility. But don't be the cause of the relationship ending and don't hold your breath for it. There are a ton of guys that can give you butterflies in your stomach. He is just one of them.

Chelsea Ngo2013-09-13T21:27:07Z

He's playing with your heart, move on he's a b*tch.