I am absolutely devistated. I am 14wks pregnant and we have a one year old together. He says he never actually cheated but he sent pictures of his penis to these girls and said some things that hurt me so bad. I feel like he cheated and I feel betrayed and decieved...I want to leave but I also don't cuz of the kids....we have been together five yrs. ....I'm so hurt :(
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I am 8 months pregnant and a single mom. My kids dad started with the messages, pics cheating, lying you name it he's done it. It's not healthy to worry while pregnant and if he is stressing you maybe he needs to go stay with a relative or something. But to let you no if he is sending pics of his penis then he has definetely cheated or is going to cheat. You are pregnant and with him, he shouldnt be sending pictures or messages to no other woman other than you! Tell him it's time for a break and give each other some space if it happens again leave him!But if this has happened before skip the break leave immediately he is not going to change and it seems like some guys act the worst when the woman is pregnant! But don't stress it's not good for the baby tell him to get his stuff and go to a relatives or something and you collect your thoughts. Hope that helps...
kim h
He may not have done it YET but the intent was there. If you had not found out he would have gone through with it. He is a cheat and I would not be staying with him. More hurt is in your future if you do. The kids would not want their mother hurt over and over by a cheating man that thinks of his penis first above his family. He may say he never cheated, do you really know? Can't believe a liar.
Sherry
Dear Hurt,
If you have been together for 5 years and things have not changed , there not going to change. I hate to be the first one to tell you that. What he done he calls not cheating? What else would you call it? He is guilty. He should have kept his thing in his pants. Shows no RESPECT FOR YOU, .
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Quit wasting ur time ..he is cheating ..he's looking for other womrm
.snd ur getting Married and prego ..leave his ***
If he truly cares hell show you he cares
Anonymous
what he did was wrong...if its the first time give him a second chance but if it happens the second time,dump his ***..at least you wouldnt want such a man raising your children