We are separating , but he really dosent want to leave . Any advise please !?

We are having problems , I told him that either we work it out or separate, he rather separate, take a break from each other, taste the waters n see what happen... (bunch of bs to me)... but still want to live in the same house ... I can't handle that. I love him. And on top of all that , I found flirtatious emails between him and a coworker . Now his phone is blocked. An he refuse to unlock it. He said that I should base out relationship on how he treats me, not on what he have on his phone.( again bs)
I told him that he need to b out by April and he finally agreed , But I truly think his clothes wi b out b4 that... I Haven't done it bcus we both have 1 children from a prev relationship living in the house
And I don't have the heart to put his kid out in the street... They do have family that live near by though... Any advise on wether I should wait or not, also should I not b rude to him? I cnt help it... I'm so hurt... Any advise please ??

We have been married for 7 years

boj2014-02-15T15:16:48Z

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Since you told him he has until April don't go back on your word. You guys are separating so there is no reason for him to unlock his phone for you, the only thing you both need to do is be respectful of one another & act as though you are separating, not still together. Make him move into another bedroom & don't, I repeat, don't have sex with him. It will only make you feel worse.

?2014-02-15T15:17:41Z

No good advise that will fix a man that lacks integrity. Just remember the children are always the victims of a broken marriage, so do ur best to shield them from the hurt ur feeling.

Anonymous2014-02-15T15:15:39Z

Girl he'd be tossed. He needs to go to his mommas if he's trying to get his feet wet. That's crazy. As for the kid he/she might enjoy grandma's for a while.. I'd be very hurt if I were you. Men are just insensitive.