I think I'm going crazy. My husband want total freedom ...please help?
We have been having problems for a couple of years. All kind of problems.and we got to the point where we started sleeping in different rooms for about 1 week, now..during that time he started acting different. So I went trough his phone and saw some emails that where kind of inappropriate between him an a co worker. So he told me that was going to stop.He proceeded to block his phone. Abt 3 days later he told me he had a late meeting . It was kind of fishy to me so I drove by his office and I saw the girl parked there ( it was 10:30 at night) .i whent crazy, came back home n put his clothes out... He was out for 3 weeks.. He came home .very now and then but we only argued. But I miss him so much. I see that he is enjoying his freedom. He is out getting drunk etc. He got married at 17,and have been married since. I want to think that he is going through an early mid live crisis.he is 34. He worked with all men, but now there is a group if new faces ( girls) his age at work and he is all exited because he have new friends they go drinking together , I think it's totally inappropriate but he dosent see it that way, I'm thorn because it seem like he rather be about in the streets , but I don't want to kick him back up because I feel that if he is out completely,, I will loose him. And now he is saying that fe want an open relationship. Wth!!!This is so that if something ever happen ( on his side) we won't gave any problems. I'm going crazy over this. He said he want to miss me