Should I stay or should I go married 7 years ?? Please read :-(?

We have been facing lil problems for years , I put him out because a month ago because I discover that he was having inappropriate communication. With some coworker, and that was the straw that broke the camels back. But of course I missed him, he came by a few time ( we had sex) until I finally let him in again, ( 7 yrs married ) anyways . I have been wanting to work in our relationship, but it seen like he dosent want to... The thing is that money is an issue hit him to start on his own . And so he is saying that he have to work it out.. HAVE TO. Emphasizing in his financial situation and a thennnnnn love . I love him dearly . I I know he is detached from me. And know he has this new Frienship that's filling out the gaps from my relationship w my husband... He said that I will meet get on me day, but not now because I'm not ready... He think I'm going to act up( since I'm jealous of her) so I feel like he want to stay in the relationship so that I can make the decision of ending it when we do not work out . That way he won't be held accountable for it ... Pretty much that I let him walk way without paying me $$$$$
He Love íntimacy with me , but say that there's something missing ... They both ride motorcycle... Etc
Should I give my marriage a try . Or should I just let him walk way ??
I feel like I'm drowning :-(

revsuzanne2014-03-24T00:23:08Z

Pick up the latest do-it-yourself divorce guide for your state from your local bookstore... that will give you the walk-through education to make the move.
Start collecting all financial statements... you will need them to collect 1/2 of all assets acquired during your 7 years of marriage... including any retirement accounts.
You can get yourself free of this troglodyte for less than $400.

He apparently does not want to work on your marriage... he's out messing around.
Go have a day of beauty at a beauty spa... get restyled and polished up.
Get out there and find your own motorcycle group to hang with... chances are you will find some very nice guys to hang around with. The more you see yourself as desirable and valuable, the less you will pine away over the troglodyte.

Scuba Diving2014-03-23T23:46:39Z

He had too much free time on his hands and his IQ was too low to concentrate on any other concepts than sex. Only geniuses don't like sex but love work and studying. You picked a loser. SEX IS FOR LOSERS

Cassandra2014-03-24T00:11:05Z

Sweetie, the sooner you say goodbye to him- the sooner you will feel better. He's hurting you, you deserve happiness with someone who treats you well.