Friend who cuts people off for no reason?

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Hi, I was friends with a guy for a few months. i thought the friendship was going well enough to where I told him something was going wrong in my life (I have depression). His response was to totally ignore in every sense - phone calls, messages, even at football. His behaviour was totally bizarre. I went to see him on Friday & he said that I did nothing wrong, but that he doesn't want to be friends 'because he doesn't want to'. I didn't think that was much of a reason. He also said that my revelation had nothing to do with it, which I highly doubt because in my mind it was hardly a coincidence, which he downplayed. He said he never wants to see me again. We're not kids either; he's 26, I'm 24, so it's not teenage drama.

Anyway, has anyone ever experienced this before, or from what I've said can you give your thoughts or just anything to help me?

Anyway, has anyone ever experienced this before, or from what I've said can you give your thoughts or just anything to help me?

Monch · Answer

i think it might be best for you to just respect the guy's decision. Just give him the benefit of the doubt, and let go of him. Whatever reasons he might have , just accept them. You are young and you will meet a lot of other people.. Think of it this way, whether your revelation about your depression may be a reason for him to cut all communication, or not, there are people who are choosy with association. There are those too who prefer being friends with people they can help, maybe this person realises there's nothing he can do to help you. Consider yourself lucky, as there are those who would take advantage of your present predicament. Trust God, and don't look down on yourself. It's that person's loss for not having you as a friend anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

Might he needed some meditation.

Anonymous · Answer

Wow, what a weirdo. I too have depression and after I told a friend she treats me like I'm a psycho. Like i have schizophrenia or something. Its really annoying. I wouldn't lose sleep over it tho. He just wasn't the person you thought he was and it sucks but its better this way.

AD · Answer

may be your problem reminded him something from his past, something he wants to forget. He might not want to share it but your presence might remind him of the same. So ignore him. Try to solve your  problem. You dont need people like him.

Friend who cuts people off for no reason?

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