@...: There is a difference between pretending to be nice or acting like you are nice and actually being a nice and decent person.
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I just accept them for the misguided hypocrites that they are. Nothing to be done about it.
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With understanding, compassion, and patience. You should be aware that people are normally good and nice by nature when they are healthy. When a person is mean, this is a sign of brain damage. They are doing their best to cope with a lot of horrible thoughts that they can't help. Have some compassion.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=esPRsT-lmw8
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If they act nice, I assume they are, having no way of judging otherwise.
The ones who act nasty, are deluding themselves that they have God's favor. But we all have our moments.
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Walk away
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Realize that they have to live with themselves and karma (or as the Christians call it, "reap what you sow").