I want to have unprotected sex but..?

I've been seeing this girl for about 4 months, and we've slept together a few times, becoming "friend with benefits" in the process and seeing each other exclusively.

A little while ago she told me that 2 days before we became friends with benefits she slept with another guy, which I'm fine with, and she did it unprotected. She was explaining all these details about doing it unprotected and how she's lucky she didn't get pregnant (she has a heart condition that doesn't allow her to take birth control pills), and she mentioned that it feels MUCH better than protected sex.

Now I've never had unprotected sex, always wanting to be safe, but I want to try it unprotected without having to wait until I actually want to have children, and obviously we both don't want to risk pregnancy. Is there any way around this situation or am I screwed?

2015-01-19T03:29:33Z

Sorry it has nothing to do with her heart, it's a blood clotting condition.

Jill2015-01-19T03:35:19Z

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Don't have unprotected sex unless you're ready to be a parent because no matter what you do there is always a chance she could get pregnant. Take it from a grown experienced woman - we cannot tell the difference between a condom or none so that's just rubbish. I'm not sure what game she is playing but BEWARE!

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hailyn s2015-01-19T03:28:51Z

You would pretty much be screwed. Are you sure about her heart condition or maybe she's lying? Also she did have unprotected sex meaning she could have gotten an std and if you have unprotected sex with her you could get pregnant too. There are birth control methods for those with conditions such as a diaphragm. Non hormonal and fits in there so sperm can't get through.

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amelia2015-01-19T03:44:49Z

Is there any way around this? Seriously? Did you learn anything in sex ed? My goodness, don't have unprotected sex unless you are willing to become a parent, better to protected so you dont wind up a parent or get diseases.

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Adrianna Fisher2015-01-19T03:35:01Z

Boyyyy!!!! You want a baby have unprotected sex that simple

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♠ Merlin ♠2015-01-19T03:28:15Z

so you are not concerned with STDs then?
unless she has the implant or shot you risk pregnancy

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