I'm really afraid of having sex for the first time?
So I'm still a virgin, but I think I'm finally ready to have sex with my girlfriend. The thing is, I am absolutely terrified of becoming a father accidentaly. It haunts me at night, and has always lead me away from sex. But, I really just want to get it overwith. Is it normal to be like this? Literally, a week ago she dropped a 'pregnancy' joke on me and I didn't return to a normal breathing pattern for 2 hours.