Girls, opinion on this?

So I'm an 18 year old guy, and I've never had a girlfriend, I am a virgin. I'm definitely not bad looking, and I think (and have been told by multiple people) that I have a lot going for me. Things just never worked out for me romantically, the girls I liked were usually either already taken, uninterested, or sometimes both. I've only kissed one girl, once, and never gone any farther than that. There have been a few opportunities I could have probably gotten sex but I chose not to because I knew in the long run it was a bad idea, and I knew I'd probably regret it later.

Honestly it's something I do feel insecure about. I feel like in sex, as the guy, there's a lot of expectations on me and I'm supposed to know what I'm doing, and while I have done a lot of research it's different than actually doing it. And I'm told that any girl worth dating will be understanding and willing to help me learn, but I don't want to feel like they have to make special allowances for me or take a few disappointing rounds before I actually get good, I really care about the girls experience for the sake of my own ego, and for her enjoyment. And I don't want to be looked at as sweet, cute and innocent either.

Basically, girls, what's your opinion on the situation? Would I still be considered desireable, hot, sexy, even though I haven't had previous experience?

Kate2015-04-25T23:51:44Z

As Harika said,any girl worth dating will be willing to help you learn and she will be patient. To find this person,you need to start dating. When you feel enough comfortable with the person you're dating,tell her this and you will see that most of girls doesn't mind and are willing to go through the whole "virgin" thing with you.

Harika2015-04-25T23:42:01Z

The answer is yes. Any girl that is actually worth dating won't mind. I reckon you should be upfront that you are a virgin when the time comes so whoever you're with knows what to expect. You will get better from there.

Teagan2015-04-25T23:39:52Z

Try really putting yourself out there and really playing the field