I've hung out with this girl a few times but I've found that whenever I ask her to hang out, she will most likely say she's too tired from work. I mean I work too, but I still am willing to hang out. She's either too tired or has some other plans already going on. I do have feelings for her but I'm beginning to think it's not worth it.
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Yeah i'm sorry to say but if she's to tired to even just chill than maybe you need to drop her but than again a lot of times when guys say lets chill that means they want sex or something so you gotta realize where shes coming from but if I wer you I wouldn't try to continue talking to her
Sur La Mer
It's a sign SHE'S NOT INTERESTED.
She's being polite, instead of . . . .
It's time to move on, and find someone new!
Charlie190
I had the same problem with a gal. Been getting the same BS answer for 7 years. Forget it as it only means she's a gold digger waiting for some rich guy to come along and give her everything she wants. Not worth it move on and save your time and money for someone else. Her name is not Steffanie is it ?
Torchbug
Sounds like she doesn't return your feelings. I agree - if she really wanted to hang out with you, job or not, she would. If she always seems to have an excuse, then maybe she's hoping you'll take a hint and move on, without forcing her to have to feel like a bad guy and tell you to go away.
Chris
Shes not OPPOSED to hanging with you... but... she simply has better looking guys to f*uck, and cooler friends to keep her entertained, so really, she doesn't have much use for you and is only kind of using you as a backup plan.
your best bet is to NOT confront her (BCUZ AGAIN YOU DONT WANNA GET FIRED OVER SOME GIRL).
You want to just, either
1) keep asking her now and then to hang out (DONT ask too often bcuz she may get creeped out, or report you, girls can be b*tches like that).....
OR you also could
2) just stop asking her to hang out at all. only politely and casually talk to her at work, if at all. (DONT go out of your way to ignore her tho. again- she may get salty and report you.)