Going out on a 3rd date with a girl but she said no making out?

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Im taking a girl on a date for the 3rd time and she told me no making out which i guess also implies no sex.

The first 2 dates were fun and we were getting closer i think.Now this is the third date we re supposed to be going on and ive paid for the first 2 so im guessing she wants me to pay for it.

I enjoy taking her out but im not made of money and her saying that also made it feel like she s using me. I feel like if you re limiting what happens whats the point of dating.

I know i probably sound like a douche but im a young guy and i have needs. i know she doesnt owe me anything but im a 21 year old guy and i have needs. And im leaving a few days after that for a while (as she knows) so i feel like she s just milking me while im here because im pretty sure when i leave she wont keep up any contact.

? · Answer

"Needs"? You have wants. And if your wants are making out/sex not spending time with her, then tell her so, and take the slap in the face and knee to the groin like a man. She's not using you. She's demanding that you respect her and her boundaries. If the problem was money, you could go on a cheap date like a picnic. The point of dating is finding out if you are the right people to get married.

lilmissfifi · Answer

mate..the longer she holds out the more decent she is...
bigger picture is that she showing you if she was your girl...no random guy can just come along have sex with her! so for fux sake dont worry about your needs...thats what prostitutes are for!  She needs to know you aint gonna let her down once she lies down with you...and I hope she keeps her legs closed as long as possible as I dont think your intentions are honorable!! you pay for the date and so what that is what man does when they like a girl...so chase her..the longer the better as if she was so hard to get Im sure you aint gonna let her go so easy!

Anonymous · Answer

She doesn't owe you sex (or anything else) just because you pay for her meal. You would only feel used if you just want sex. If you are actually interested in a relationship, you wouldn't feel used.

Going out on a 3rd date with a girl but she said no making out?

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