why does my ex bf seem so bitter and full of hatred towards me?

like every break up, as much as i tried to avoid it, there was useless drama that went on. he was going around talking about me to other people, made fb posts about me when i didnt even do anything to him, and just very bitter. i know an ex is an ex, and thats where he will stay but hes acting all angry when i am not. we were together for almost 2 years, lived together, and invested a lot into each other. he said, at first, he was just with me for the s*x and then i heard that he was afraid of being lonely. i just dont understand why he would say those things when he constantly told me he wants a future with me. i took care of everything that needed to be settled in the beginning and then i let it go, it was the stuff he was doing that made the break up drag on. why does he have so much hatred towards me? hes not my only ex, i am friendly with my 2 ex bfs before him with no hard feelings. Ive never been treated like that, only nice advice please.

?2016-02-13T08:27:56Z

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Ashley, immaturity reflects in many ways, and what you describe is one of the traits. Tantrums likely were a big part of his childhood. You can nip it in the bud by ignoring him totally, and ignore FB for a good while. Simply move on in life, and he will soon realize no one is paying any attention to him.

Anonymous2016-02-13T08:23:24Z

Well..... its an ex.... they do those things.Like my current wife. We have dated like 3 months and we broke up and since then she was always spreading just pure HATE against me in school (we went to same school). One day i went to a club and she was drunk there so i tried to talk to her cuz normaly she wouldnt and she said that she acts like that because she still wants me back and hates me for not loving her. I said that i will always love her and we kissed. Well, and thats the story how we got back together and half year ago got married. Hope this helps

?2016-02-13T08:21:41Z

It can depend on how violent the final breakup was, and now he feels he's wasted two years of his life with you and wants some sort of revenge.