I am 16, and I want to have sex with the guy that I like, but I am not sure that he wants it too. I am afraid that if I tell him, he will start ignoring me. I want to subtly let him know that I want it. Any ideas on what I could do?
Anonymous
By the sounds of it, it seems like you are not in a relationship with him or have only been dating for a short period of time. I am a girl and I lost my virginity when I was a bit younger than you with a guy I was dating for 8 months. During that time, we tried all these other stages leading up to sex. By that stage, I knew that we mutually would agree to have sex with each other. If you aren't sure he wants to, it means you need to spend a bit more time with him. If you're not sure because you are wanting a friends with benefits situation, most guys will agree to sex and most likely not ignore you, in my situation they thought it was really random that I asked them. I have recently begun a friends with benefits relationship and I was the one that initiated it which was kinda scary. So if you are after FWB, I chose to initiate it over snapchat because it disappears hahah. If you don't have snapchat, message him casually and try and find an excuse to meet up and do it in person. With that, be super flirty, stroke his inner thigh, kiss his neck and it will lead into more hopefully (make sure you have a free house). If you are in a relationship with this guy, then meet up with him and preferably at night when you have a free house, watch a movie and let it lead into more :)) With these meet up situations, it's good to get him really turned on and gradually lead into sex. I hope this makes sense haha xx
Nanami
Why don't you just kiss him deep kisses (swirl your tongue around his, suck on his tongue) if you want to try lip biting then take his bottom lip between your teeth lips and suck, bite moan in his mouth a bit I don't mean mouth open wide just a little bit of moaning and he might respond to touching you.
Tongue kisses are pretty good though move to his neck, suck on his neck bite roam your hands up and down his body touch push his body into yours or yours on his and his dick squeeze hard or gently play with his balls either through his pants or just over he'll get definitely get aroused and I'm pretty sure he'll get the idea if not the guy is dense as f*ck.
But why don't you just google it to get more information instead of asking random strangers for advice, but you might run the risk of ruining your friendship so he might ignore you, a relationship would be a more better option or if you don't want one just ask if want to be sex buddies but if he declines then you'll have to deal with the consequences
Level 7 is Best
Just show up.
Ethan
start kissing then start touching body parts, its that simple
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When you sit with him you should just go for it and **** him where he stands (or sits) šš»