Advice to be an "effective" human being?
I feel as though I am "blessed" in so many ways and yet it's not "enough" for my "satisfaction".?

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Advice to be an "effective" human being :P... ???

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I feel as though I am "blessed" in so many ways and yet it's not "enough" for my "satisfaction in life"... primarily, I am lacking in communication skills with other people. For whatever reason, I have become somewhat socially anxious and reserved even though others with less manage to be more effective and perhaps happier...
I consider myself to be more empathetic than the average person and have been commended for good traits my whole life. With my non-alpha personality however, I have probably benefited from being a large male preserving me from "bullying" that might have occurred otherwise....i.e. I'm "different" - would love to fix my communication flaws, although at the same time I  am learning not to let outsiders govern my emotional state of mind.

Archer · Accepted Answer

Drop your self-importance a little bit, you might think you're giving a good impression of yourself in this question, but there seems to seems be a lot of arrogance that you're hiding. Don't hide from yourself, if you're to scared to be yourself, then there's something definitely wrong.

Andy C · Answer

Advice?   Get tested by a psychiatrist to determine what the cause of your lack of communication skills is.  My guess is it's intrinsic and congenital, not purely psychological.

Advice to be an "effective" human being? I feel as though I am "blessed" in so many ways and yet it's not "enough" for my "satisfaction".?

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