hi how can I form good quality friends as an adult ?

I have like one solid good friend I mean GREAT Buddy but he is married so I don't have much else people to hangout with don't get me wrong. I have a lot of friends but a lot of them just like to drink or party I would like high quality people who are success driven like I am, I am in my twenties and not to be rude, but I don't want to hangout with people who consistently drink ya know? I go to the gym a lot and I have hobbies but I don't know I could really use a good friend Im super funny nonchalant don't take myself so serious but I want people who will help me better myself and grow I don't want to end up thirty doing the same things if anyone has an tips or anything this would be much appreciated thank you

howard2017-04-15T04:30:53Z

start with yourself

Tom2017-04-15T04:21:47Z

It's very hard to build friendships once you become an adult. That being said, it's not impossible. My advice is to keep doing your thing and you will meet people in the circles that you frequent. You say you are driven for success. I'm not sure how you define that, but I would imagine that involves your work, classes you take, studies and activities you pursue, etc. Chances are that you may run into people who are like-minded who you click with.

dude2017-04-15T04:11:23Z

just be like it