I must admit that I feel attraction to petite younger girls like those still in college. Is it OK and healthy for me, a 25 year old introvert guy who never dated anybody to be attracted to girls as young as 17? I also fantasize in my wildest dreams that I could perhaps sleep with a young college girl who is at least 18. I feel that its immoral but its something I never had. Is there any wrong in that? How do I deal with that?
Anonymous
There's NOTHING wrong with fantasizing about younger women.
It's been scientifically proven that men seek younger women, because they display the essence of virility, and virginity, which men are chemically attracted to.
When I was 32, I got with an 18 year old girl.
She was beautiful, amazing body, and everything a guy would dream about, and fantasize about (and I still do).
The problem is, you don't have much in common, so other than the sex, there is rarely anything else.
There won't be any stimulating conversation, and you won't be on the same plain as far as life goes.
But, if you get the chance to be with a younger woman, go for it, as long as it is mutual and both know what you are getting involved in, there is nothing anyone can say.
If I had the chance again to be with a woman half my age, I would do it in a heartbeat.
Janet
Your introversion indicates low self-esteem. You are attracted to younger girls because they are not adults and don't expect much from you and you can control them more easily.
This is not healthy, and these relationships will not be healthy either.
Not only that .. the older you get WITHOUT gaining self-esteem, the fewer young girls will be attracted to you, until the day comes when they will not even look at you.
As for 17-year olds, you could easily be arrested for Statutory Rape.
You really need to sit down with a therapist and get yourself well.