How to help girlfriend who is still emotionally damaged over ex?

They broke up a little over a year ago but they dated for awhile and she really loved him. He left and basically told her he found her annoying and a waste of time and that he knew he wanted to break up for a significant amount of time before they actually did. I am the only other person she has loved and is just scared that I am going to do the same thing. I have absolutely no intention of this and I have talked with her about it many times but her confidence is shot from her bad previous experience. What can I do to help?

Foofa2018-10-24T17:32:49Z

Help her find a good licensed therapist.

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Janet2018-07-31T08:56:25Z

Offer to pay for her therapy sessions.
YOU cannot do HER psychological work.
And if she is still emotionally damaged over an ex, she is NOT ready to make a relationship with you last either.

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How To Catch Lying Vermin2018-07-31T08:02:10Z

Its not always emotional damage thank you very much- some women are just too exhausted to bother, because when you are with a person you d rather be single . Ask her what the inhibitions are- some women don t come out relationships emotionally damaged, they mentally checked out long before it ended, sometimes she just isn t bothered, its a shame you were not her first relationship instead of being whatever number you are now.

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