We talked one time on the phone before she came over to my house and we had sex. I like her and she likes me. We have been seeing each other for almost 2 months. My best friend says she's a slut and I should run. "Who fu*ks strange guys you just met on the internet?" he says. I guess he has a point. Should I worry about it?
Obi Wan Knievel
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She wants to skip all the preamble and just get straight to the sex? Sounds like you've found every guy's dream girl.
Your buddy might be right about her, but he's also an idiot. It's true, girls who have sex on the first date are also often the type of girls who drive off cliffs and start fires in bathrooms for no apparent reason. But believe me, there are no guarantees that the girl who won't have sex until she's legally married is any more stable. No guarantees at all, in fact.
I've dated several girls who said yes on the first date, even a few where sex was the first date. But I've also dated (and converted) more than a few pristine virgins, and they were just as kind of totally insane as the slutty girls. That's because there are almost no guarantees. There are a few girls who openly share their crazy with everyone, and you can spot them a mile away, but most girls tend to save their crazy up for special occasions.
You don't know how crazy any girl is after the first date, you need a bit more time than that. My wife didn't let her crazy come out until we were engaged, then it showed up with a vengeance.
Mark
Any tips you can share on how the rest of us can get some of this?????????? :D
Anonymous
I would say you both are not very smart.............have you seen her Dr's report that she has no diseases and vice versa ??
Anonymous
If you and her are going there is no reason to end it. Like maybe don't have a serious relationship with her. But just enjoy it while it lasts
Anonymous
Well, double standards there isn't it, because it takes two to tango. She didn't have sex with thin air. You should judge your relationship by how she makes you feel and if you are a better person when she's with you. Why would you ruin it now? If you can't get over the fact that she had sex with you on the first date, that's your problem and maybe your friend should stay out of it.