Not gonna get quality time with girlfriend for like 3 weeks what should I do?

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So me and my girlfriend only get to see each other on weekends and so those are very important at times for us. This weekend she is sick and we barley got to see each other, I go the school week without seeing her and then next weekend she is going on vacation so I won’t get to see her until the weekend after that. We spend time together constant whenever we can and our time in person together is really important to the stability of our relationship. We would see each other every day if we could and so bring limited to the weekends has been hard and not getting to see her for this past week and the next two weeks has not been easy and is gonna be very difficult for us to deal with. Ik it sounds dumb because it isn’t really that long to go without seeing each other but we have been having a little bit of issues recently since I said something to her that her ex said when he broke up and now she is convinced I’m gonna leave her. It wasn’t meant to be mean but she took it that way so not being able to see her does not help that. What can I do?

Anonymous · Answer

Its only 3weeks my dude
Focus on YOURSELF and find something you like to do that you can meet new people. Go to the gym. Go running. Hang out with your friends. I'm pretty sure your gf will be doing the same she is probably already shopping. Don't be a couch potato.

Rinkydink · Answer

Give her some room.  3 weeks can interrupt a regular schedule but it’s not unusual and you’ll both get over it.  Look forward to a great reunion in 3 weeks.

Anonymous · Answer

"What can I do?"    About what?   You said you can't see her for three weeks, so I have no clue what your question is.

"our time in person together is really important to the stability of our relationship"   If three weeks apart will cause instability in the relationship, then you don't have much of a relationship.  You should consider couples therapy.

Many people have partners/spouses  that they don't see for months or even a year.  And many of these people are in physically dangerous situations.  This is very common for people who are in the military, who work overseas, etc.  Yes it is difficult for long periods of time, but three weeks is nothing.  Get a grip.

Not gonna get quality time with girlfriend for like 3 weeks what should I do?

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