my boyfriend gets super mad when i express my feelings?

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So we were gonna head to Santas enchanted forest, and double date. Me my boyfriend, my bfs best friend and his date.

My boyfriend was persuasding his best friends gf to come.

She couldnt cause her dad didnt wnat her out too late. They kept trying to persuade. I wanted to just talk to my baby and have some attention and just ask him how hes doing.

hes like baby ill call you back im trying to persuade my bffs gf to come. i love u bye. 
im like okay :(

it hurt. i felt rejected. like, all i wanted was some attention and he put his best friends gf before me. :( 
i texted him u cant even take a break and give me ur girlfriend tht u supposedly love for even 5 minutes! then he gets mad telling me forget it. we r just not going.

hes like why do u always do this!? 
and im like all i was doing is expressing my feelings!!

he then is like babe i just realized how stupid this convo is.

im picking ur bipolar *** up.

am i crazy , or was i reasonable to feel hurt and upset?

Patricia · Accepted Answer

I"m sure that, after he talked to his friend, he'd have gotten back to you.

You seem insecure and really very needy.  Guys don't like this.  And it's a set up for him to walk away if it doesn't stop.

??? · Answer

You were reasonable. I think I would break up with this guy. He seemed more excited about his bfs gf going and then he was snippy and rude to you.

max · Answer

I’m sure he was just mad that he could not go

Mike A · Answer

What it sounds like to me, is that your boyfriend is a dud. He doesn't sound like he's really worth your time. He's very likely not a very nice person if he cares more about making some event you've somewhat outgrown go just right, instead of taking a moment to share some affection with you.

It would not surprise me if he is with you because he feels entitled to you, rather than because he feels lucky to have you in his life. I really don't see this relationship lasting too much longer. He's a bad fit. There are way better guys out there.

And that's the best advice I can give.

? · Answer

You need to realize expressing your feelings isn't always  a good thing. You should  avoid expressing your feelings around your bf or you will end up being dumped.

my boyfriend gets super mad when i express my feelings?

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