Do you think my classmate dislikes me?

I am in a healthcare program at the technical college. There are about 15 of us in our cohort so we are a pretty small group. We started in September and its a one year program.

Anyway, there is this one lady who is a classmate of mine and I can't tell if she likes me or not. I am leaning towards not. But we had an "open house" for our family members to come watch and see what our program is about and she introduced her husband to a classmate but not me and didn't even acknowledge me. Another time we were at a conference and our class was sitting in the first two rows. I was sitting at the end and she was sitting next to me. She would talk to everybody else with her head turned away from me forgetting I was there. It made me feel unwelcome. Another thing that happened is I added my classmates on facebook, but she never approved my friend request- although she is friends with everybody else with the exception of me and a girl in class that everybody thinks is annoying. I am actually quiet so I am not "annoying" and I am kind to everybody. What am I doing wrong? Do you think she hates me for no reason? Is she maybe insecure and she sees me as an easy target (She is overweight and has said she has struggled with depression). What do you think?

marys.momma2019-03-17T01:40:57Z

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Sometimes there's no particular reason for someone to dislike another person.

Just "maintain course and speed", do your assigned work, and remember that after the course is over, you won't have to see much of her from then on.

Foofa2019-03-19T15:26:14Z

If she's crossed the line with you by telling you of her personal demons she's probably embarrassed. No one should even know about her mental illness.

nanny ogg2019-03-18T00:25:45Z

As she seems to have made no social contact with you then that is your answer. I know it can hurt because you have not done anything, but just dont worry about it we can never say what makes people act the way they do. Stop thinking and looking at her and wondering, this is all a waste of your precious time. Make other friends, this is a very short period in your life, so move on and put it behind you.

Pearl2019-03-16T14:52:21Z

nnaybe you should ask her this question

Anonymous2019-03-16T01:04:06Z

Her husband has probably said you are attractive or cute,and she is being distant or she sees you as a threat and wants to keep you away from her man

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