Tips to gain confidence?

Hi, I want to feel great about myself. And I am motivated to put in all the work it takes. Any suggestions on building my self-esteem? I really want to feel great about myself.

Anonymous2019-03-24T19:05:06Z

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With your miserable attitude you will NEVER be self confident, self assured, respected. Here's an example of why: "I want to kill myself.? I ******* hate my parents because they ******* hurt me, They let me down because I was born premature. They didn't take care of me so I wouldn't be born premature. They deserve to go to hell. When I first told my parents about my depression, my mom told me "don't you dare let me down". Why the hell should I not let her down, She let me down."

Grace2019-03-20T20:46:44Z

1) Stop comparing yourself to others. There will always be someone that you think is better than you, so it's best not to compare.
2) Take a journal and write down everything you love about yourself and hang it up where you will often see it. Some examples are: "My eyes are gorgeous," "I can make anyone smile," etc.
3) Conduct a mini-experiment to see what people compliment you on most, or what people like most about you. Always remember the results. It's nice knowing what makes you stand out to others. For example, "It's cool that I'm the person who can make anyone laugh!"